Jesus also called us out of isolation into relationship. Start or participate in a local gathering of men that has regular frequency, and strive for sensitivity to the gospel, to the Word of God, and the Spirit of God, a safe place for humility, honesty, healing in body, soul and spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:23). Expect this fellowship to be messy since losing our sin and self-centeredness is messy but such is the process of becoming spiritual sons and spiritual fathers that reflect the manhood of Christ. Show radical acceptance and kindness to your BROTHER where scripture allows so godly repentance led by the Spirit has a place to grow. Start or join a BROTHERHOOD CIRCLE (men's small group). This could be as small as you meeting with 1 or 2 other men or grow into several more, however you can organize so men can experience and express sincere body, soul and spirit cleansing, not hiding behind self-righteous or self-despairing masks.